Highly self-actualized people – often the accomplished artists, authors, athletes, doctors and politicians – possess many of the following characteristics:
- Realistic, logical and efficient – superior ability to reason, see truth and differentiate between the fake and dishonest and the real and genuine.
- Problem-centered – treat difficulties simply as problems that need solutions.
- Enjoy solitude and themselves without regret or apology. Rely on inner self, not others, for satisfaction.
- Accept themselves, others and the natural world as they are.
- Not very responsive to social pressure. Can be non-conformist.
- Meaningful degree of detachment from physical and social needs, traditions, formality, etc.
- Profound, intimate relationships with a few rather than many shallow relationships. Affection and friendliness shown to everyone.
- Strong ethics. Spiritual, but seldom conventionally religious.
- Freshness of appreciation – ability to see things, even ordinary things, with wonder.
- Spontaneous in their inner life, thoughts and impulses.
- No unnecessary inhibitions – not threatened or frightened by the unknown.
- Self starter – motivated to continually improve. Has a life mission that requires much energy and gives them reason to live.
- Other-centered – focused on problems outside themselves.
- Unflappable – able to retain dignity amid confusion and misfortune.
- Responsible and takes responsibility for self.
- Humble – able to learn from anyone.
- Jokes not at the expense of others, but often about own personal flaws or the shared human condition.
- Indignation with injustice.
- Painfully aware of own imperfections, joyfully aware of own growth process.
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